Save Your Relationship

Love is the flower you've got to let grow. Tell someone this Valentine

2012-02-07T09:31:00.000-08:00

If you live to be a hundred, I wantto live to be a hundred minus one day so I never have to live without you.
A. A. Milne

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lipsyou kissed, but my soul.
Judy Garland

Where there is great love, there are always wishes.
Willa Cather

Love is a game that two can play and both win.
Eva Gabor

Love is being stupid together.
Paul Valery

If you press me to say why I loved him, I can say no more than because he washe, and I was I.
Michel de Montaigne

I'll love you, dear, I'll love you till China and Africa meet and the riverjumps over the mountain and the salmon sing in the street.
W. H. Auden

Love is the magician that pulls man out of his own hat.
Ben Hecht

We are each of us angels with only one wing, and we can only fly by embracingone another.
Lucretius

To love abundantly is to live abundantly, and to love forever is to liveforever.
Henry Drummond

Love is the flower you've got to let grow.
John Lennon

Come live in my heart, and pay no rent.
Samuel Lover

If you have only one smile in you give it to the people you love.
Maya Angelou

A kiss is a lovely trick designed by nature to stop speech when words becomesuperfluous.
Ingrid Bergman

When love is not madness, it is not love.
Pedro Calderon de la Barca

A heart is not judged by how much you love, but by how much you are loved byothers.
Frank Morgan

Love is what you've been through with somebody.
James Thurber

Where there is love there is life.
Mohandas Gandhi

Nobody has ever measured, not even poets, how much the heart can hold.
Zelda Fitzgerald

The Eskimos had fifty-two names for snow because it was important to them:there ought to be as many for love.
Margaret Atwood

Love is when you meet someone who tells you something new about yourself.
Andre Breton

Love makes your soul crawl out from its hiding place.
Zora Neale Hurston

Love is metaphysical gravity.
R. Buckminster Fuller

Life is the flower for which love is the honey.
Victor Hugo

Online Dating Methodology

2012-02-07T09:23:00.000-08:00

Hello my friends, it’s been a while since I have upload on this part of my blog life, sorry about that, I came across these hints, talking about “Online Dating” after reading it I think it’s quite OK to shear it out. Enjoy your reading

If you've ever tried online dating, and felt disappointed and distressed by it all - it doesn't
have to be that way.

We want to help you break online dating into small pieces that you can feel great doing them and
following through - so you can be successful each step of the way to the man of your dreams.

   Let's start here with one piece of the online dating puzzle - your "profile":

   Your dating site profile is the most important
tool you have to find love online (next to your
photo), and improving your profile can make a big
difference for you - fast.

   It's the "identity" you put forward to men on the dating site, it's what a man sees see when he
looks for the woman he wants - and it's all you've got to make a first impression and pull in the
proposals.

   Here's a quick guide to making this one section that most women practically ignore - stand out
from the crowd and work for you powerfully - the "what you like" section that's often in the

"sidebar":

It doesn't seem important, when you're focused on writing a good "in your own words"
profile...and so you might just have filled it in without thinking about it - but what if a man
looks at that section FIRST?

It's short and sweet - and it shows up in the
first place his eyes go to. If he wants a "Cliff's Notes" version of who you are to see if you have
anything in common (after he's decided that your picture attracts him) - he'll look at that first
and make a snap judgment about you that might be
hard to shake.

   So here are some guidelines to use this often overlooked feature on an online dating site to
your advantage:

   1. Complete all the sections of a dating site profile.
Seems obvious, doesn't it? But have you really paid attention to the seemingly "insignificant
questions you're supposed to "fill in"?

What you don't want is for there to be "gaps." If sections remain unfilled, you can give the
impression of looking evasive and less than completely serious.

   The good news is that the bulk of the profile won't take long to complete. Even the most
demanding sites don't ask you to write more than three or four mini-compositions about yourself and your ideal date.

   The bulk of the profile on most sites is always
a series of checkboxes - the ones about your likes
and dislikes.

   Fill these sections in as accurately and as quickly as you can and move on - so you can feel a
sense of accomplishment for finishing it

   The checkboxes are pretty much like "shopping lists" - but fill them out, because a man may skip
over it at first, but he almost always goes back
to look it over after he's read your profile.

   Mostly, the checklists help the site's matching
engine - and they're meant for that. But most of
us can't help but look at checklists!

   The truth is, the fact that someone likes jazz
more than rock, or comedies more than
documentaries, doesn't really tell you whether
they're going to like you - or whether you're
going to like them - but you look at it anyway,
and sometimes even make snap decisions based on
them.

   Internet dating can bring all sorts of people
together. It can certainly match people up who are
looking for something very specific - and even a
little unusual.

   But when you begin looking for someone online,
you want your profile to be as INCLUSIVE as
possible.

   Once the emails come in, you can then start to
focus on the responding to the men you "don't find
unacceptable" (we've put it this way to encourage
you to be as "unpicky" at the beginning in your
"requirements" as you can).

   A good man can just slip by you because he
didn't fit into your "wants" - just the way you
can slip by him, too, if you're too stringent in
your qualifications.

   Instead...let the man IN PERSON - when you
finally meet him - determine how you think and
feel about him.

   There are so many "tricks" to online dating
that will help keep you "cool" and motivated -
that will save you time and frustration and
heartache.

   So - check out our "Attract The Hell Out of
Him! - Crack The Secret Code of Online Dating"
ebook to get so much information and guidance, and
quickly LEARN the tricks that can make all the
difference for you.

   "Online Dating" is filled with worksheets and
how-tos so you can really know the kind of man
you're truly looking for (and not just gravitate
to the same kind of man who always disappoints
you), choose your personal "name" for each dating
site, write a great "headline," and compose a
profile that will get you the man you want:

http://www.loveromancerelationship.com/online-dating/

   Online Dating can be the most fantastic thing
for you - or it can be a hard, sloggy road to
nowhere. It can get you the man you want - FAST -
or it can get you into the same dead-end non-
relationships over and over again.

   "Crack the Secret Code to Online Dating" will
lead you by the hand and give you "relationship"
advice, too - so you'll know how to handle each
step along the way to make the most out of your
online dating experience.

   We want you to be successful, right off, and we
want you to feel secure that you CAN be
successful! So try out our "Online Dating" Guide
and be sure to tell us your success story!

   Sincerely, The Editors at
LoveRomanceRelationship.com

LoveRomanceRelationship
P.O. Box 831, Culver City, CA 90232, USA

break online dating into small pieces

2011-11-21T09:33:00.000-08:00

If you've ever tried online dating, and felt
disappointed and distressed by it all - it doesn't
have to be that way.

   We want to help you break online dating into
small pieces that you can feel great doing them and
following through - so you can be successful each
step of the way to the man of your dreams.

   Let's start here with one piece of the online
dating puzzle - your "profile":

   Your dating site profile is the most important
tool you have to find love online (next to your
photo), and improving your profile can make a big
difference for you - fast.

   It's the "identity" you put forward to men on
the dating site, it's what a man sees see when he
looks for the woman he wants - and it's all you've
got to make a first impression and pull in the
proposals.

   Here's a quick guide to making this one section
that most women practically ignore - stand out
from the crowd and work for you powerfully - the
"what you like" section that's often in the

"sidebar":

It doesn't seem important, when you're focused
on writing a good "in your own words"
profile...and so you might just have filled it in
without thinking about it - but what if a man
looks at that section FIRST?

It's short and sweet - and it shows up in the
first place his eyes go to. If he wants a "Cliff's
Notes" version of who you are to see if you have
anything in common (after he's decided that your
picture attracts him) - he'll look at that first
and make a snap judgment about you that might be
hard to shake.

So here are some guidelines to use this often

overlooked feature on an online dating site to
your advantage:

   1. Complete all the sections of a dating site
profile.

   Seems obvious, doesn't it? But have you really
paid attention to the seemingly "insignificant
questions you're supposed to "fill in"?

   What you don't want is for there to be "gaps."
If sections remain unfilled, you can give the
impression of looking evasive and less than
completely serious.

   The good news is that the bulk of the profile
won't take long to complete. Even the most
demanding sites don't ask you to write more than
three or four mini-compositions about yourself and
your ideal date.

   The bulk of the profile on most sites is always
a series of checkboxes - the ones about your likes
and dislikes.

   Fill these sections in as accurately and as
quickly as you can and move on - so you can feel a
sense of accomplishment for finishing it

   The checkboxes are pretty much like "shopping
lists" - but fill them out, because a man may skip
over it at first, but he almost always goes back
to look it over after he's read your profile.

   Mostly, the checklists help the site's matching
engine - and they're meant for that. But most of
us can't help but look at checklists!

   The truth is, the fact that someone likes jazz
more than rock, or comedies more than
documentaries, doesn't really tell you whether
they're going to like you - or whether you're
going to like them - but you look at it anyway,
and sometimes even make snap decisions based on
them.

   Internet dating can bring all sorts of people
together. It can certainly match people up who are
looking for something very specific - and even a
little unusual.

   But when you begin looking for someone online,
you want your profile to be as INCLUSIVE as
possible.

   Once the emails come in, you can then start to
focus on the responding to the men you "don't find
unacceptable" (we've put it this way to encourage
you to be as "unpicky" at the beginning in your
"requirements" as you can).

   A good man can just slip by you because he
didn't fit into your "wants" - just the way you
can slip by him, too, if you're too stringent in
your qualifications.

   Instead...let the man IN PERSON - when you
finally meet him - determine how you think and
feel about him.

   There are so many "tricks" to online dating
that will help keep you "cool" and motivated -
that will save you time and frustration and
heartache.

   So - check out our "Attract The Hell Out of
Him! - Crack The Secret Code of Online Dating"
ebook to get so much information and guidance, and
quickly LEARN the tricks that can make all the
difference for you.

   "Online Dating" is filled with worksheets and
how-tos so you can really know the kind of man
you're truly looking for (and not just gravitate
to the same kind of man who always disappoints
you), choose your personal "name" for each dating
site, write a great "headline," and compose a
profile that will get you the man you want:

http://www.loveromancerelationship.com/online-dating/

   Online Dating can be the most fantastic thing
for you - or it can be a hard, sloggy road to
nowhere. It can get you the man you want - FAST -
or it can get you into the same dead-end non-
relationships over and over again.

   "Crack the Secret Code to Online Dating" will
lead you by the hand and give you "relationship"
advice, too - so you'll know how to handle each
step along the way to make the most out of your
online dating experience.

   We want you to be successful, right off, and we
want you to feel secure that you CAN be
successful! So try out our "Online Dating" Guide
and be sure to tell us your success story!

   Sincerely, The Editors at
LoveRomanceRelationship.com

LoveRomanceRelationship
P.O. Box 831, Culver City, CA 90232, USA

What is "True Love"?

2011-09-24T10:38:00.000-07:00

How will you recognize it when it comes to you?

Is true love what you see at a wedding, where

two people come together to declare their feelings

for each other before friends and family? Does a

wedding necessarily mean "true love"?

What's the difference between what we might

think is "true love" and - fantasy?

If you look at statistics, so many marriages

fall apart and dissolve, it makes you wonder. It

makes you ask: Was true love ever there from the

beginning? Or did it die? And...if it wasn't there

- What makes us think it was? And if it WAS

there...How did it die?

If you're like most women, you tend to get

caught up in your imagination.

Have you ever experienced wanting love SO badly

that when a man comes along who kind of fits the

bill, you jumped all over him, wedding bells

ringing loudly in your ears?

And then, what felt like true love fell apart -

like the "bubble burst"? "Reality" set in, and all

you felt was pain? And sometimes humiliation

and a whole round of blaming youself?

Is this, then, IMAGINARY "love"?

We as individuals can also tend to get caught

up in "stuff" - our work, our children and

hobbies, and our partners suffer as a result.

When this happens to you, and your man suddenly

(or maybe you just notice it's been like this for

years...) feels like a roommate, a friend, some

distant person you once knew, things can just

plunge downhill.

The horrible thing that can happen with this is

"cheating," where you or your man seek "comfort"

and sex elsewhere. And this can then damage your

relationship so badly that saving it becomes a

monumental challenge.

Or - maybe the excitement and connection just

withered and died from neglect.

If you still have feelings for your man, you

might just become more and more sad, feel more

and more hopeless, and try everything you can to

"fix" things in ways that don't work - which makes

you feel even worse.

How can you prevent this from happening to you?

If you start out with what feels like "true love"

- how can you keep it going?

And if it feels like love now, but then it

fades...what can you do to bring the love back -

even if you've decided now that there never WAS

such a thing as "true love" - only the love you

have, and want back?

When love has come to you, people say there is

a "knowing," a profound feeling of having "come

home."

And yet, as it is for so many women - that

could just be your old subconscious patterns

driving you to the actually "wrong" man yet again.

It could be your hormones clouding your judgment

and missing "red flags."

It could be a superficial chemistry instead of

a deeply rooted emotional, mental and spiritual

connection.

Whatever you're starting with, it needs time to

grow. You and he need time to grow together - to

be sure that you didn't "create" the relationship

out of need and desperation, or out of your hopes

and wishes and imagination.

You want to be sure that you haven't created an

illusion that will backfire on you.

And the challenging thing is this: No matter

WHAT is actually going to happen to your

relationship - no matter WHAT you discover about

you or him that can either bring you closer

together or send you further apart - you still

have to TEND to the relationship as it is.

Regardless of whether or not he's "the One,"

you must PRACTICE love. You must, as so many

experts say, tend to yourself, feed yourself,

water yourself, nourish yourself - and let all

that love you create in yourself radiate out to

him - so that he feels tended, fed, watered,

nourished and loved just by being WITH you.

Relationships aren't supposed to be HARD. It's

not the RELATIONSHIP that requires the hard work.

THAT'S the part that's EASY!

When you love yourself - you naturally love

your man. But that's the challenging part -

working with yourself, overcoming your fears of

intimacy and really getting close and emotionally

raw with a man.

Overcoming your fears of rejection and

abandonment, the most common ones almost all

women have deep inside.

These fears can seriously interfere with the

love you feel, the love you express, and the love

between you and a man.

You may unconsciously push him away to avoid

the pain that you're afraid is "inevitable," only

to be faced with the pain you were trying to

avoid.

Relationships do need attention though. As you

quietly work on yourself, you also need to BE

there for your man and for your relationship:

True love then is what?

It could mean different things to different

people.

Most people agree that romantic love is an

ever-deepening emotional, physical, mental and

spiritual connection..

Yes, it starts with "chemistry" and a match-up

that no-one can predict or define - that only YOU

can feel.

But then the connection - the bond - has to be

forged and strengthened moment by moment, day by

day - through respect, touch, feeling, words, and

our willingness to love.

The kind of intimate love - that means going

deep in an emotional and physical and spiritual

way with a man you want to build a relationship

with is Tinque's area of expertise. You'll want to

get her free newsletters and her free report on

attraction and how to create it right here:

http://www.LoveRomanceRelationship.com/sex-and-heart-free-report-2/

Here's to love for you!

Sincerely, The Editors at

http://www.LoveRomanceRelationship.com

What to Do If you Happen to Fall in Love With Two Men at the Same Time

2011-08-21T09:38:00.000-07:00

if you are finding yourself torn between two men, this can be a very tough time for you. You will have a lot of questions that you are going to have to ask yourself and take the time to carefully sort through them to figure out what is right for you. This is going to be something that you will have to address because it is not a healthy relationship to have.

You will have to decide if what you are doing is good for you. Is it possible for you to have a healthy and loving relationship with two men at the same time? Are you going to be able to choose one over the other? These are things that you have to think about and then you have to think about them some more. You can be in love with two men at one time, but it is not something that you can act upon without getting yourself hurt.

Top reasons why we can fall in love with two people at the same time

It is possible to fall in love with two people at the same time. When you find that you are having feelings for two people at the same time, this can be a very difficult time. You may be having some feelings of love in the same way for these two people. This is going to be something that you will have to lay out on the table in front of you so that you can see where your feelings are coming from.

It is possible to be in a loving relationship and still find yourself having feelings for someone else. This is completely normal and it may just be temporary. Maybe this other person has done something nice for you or has shown you some kind of interest for one reason or another. This may trigger some emotional feelings towards this person and you may not understand why or how you can stop them.
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There may be two people that are so very different from each other but for some reason they both have caught your attention and you like them for separate reasons. This is possible and you will have to come to terms with which one is going to be better for you. You must think about your feelings for both people and why you are having these feelings.

How do I determine which one is the right mate for me?

You may wander how you are ever going to decide between the two people. You will have to figure out which person is right for you. This will take a lot of thinking on your part. You will have to figure out what it is you want to have in life. What type of life do you want and which person will be better for you. You will have to spend some time with both of the people so that you can better determine which person you have more of a connection with.

Attraction is the main reason why people want to be together. They may have some sort of physical or emotional attraction for the other person. When this is the case, you have to dig down deeper and find out if there is another reason why you are so infatuated with this person. You will need to spend time together talking and finding out about one another so that you can better determine who is going to be best for you.

How do I make a wise decision without hurting both of them?

If you think that it is best to be open with both of the people that you are attracted to, you may find that this will end both relationships. Some may not take the news that you are in love with two people very well and they may decide to make the decision for you by ending it. If this is the case, you may have some relief knowing that the problem has now been solved and even though it is over, you may feel a little more relieved. This feeling may be one that you have anticipated for a long time.

There are some people that just decide it is impossible to choose between the two and it is a wise choice to let them both go. This is going to be a hard decision to make; however, in some cases, it is the only possible outcome. You cannot string someone along and make him or her wait for you because you cannot make up your mind. You may have a strong connection with both partners, but you know that it is wrong and you have to do the right thing.

The main thing that you need to remember is that you have to do what is best for you. It is important to make sure that you have your best interest in mind. You need to put yourself ahead of anyone else so that you can

Love and Relationships Never End

2011-04-07T02:42:00.000-07:00

Getting your relationship back together is a daunting task; especially when getting your ex back on the same platform where the two of you have shared many joys and sorrows together.
People who have lost their better half are significant.

Fortunately, the chances of winning back the lost love is equally significant. All you need is legitimate advice from an unbiased source as to how you can get your ex back. Unfortunately, there is no quick fix solution available as human emotions are involved. Each situation differs as everyone has different backgrounds, unique circumstances and varying reasons for breaking up.

If you regret your decision and truly want your ex back the first thing you need to do is dump the negative feelings from your heart and mind that have caused the undesired separation. Try to rejuvenate your mind and soul by thinking about the many good memories the two of you have shared with each other. Always remember evil will get bigger with time if you nurture it.

Having said that, you must look at some common reasons break ups occur. To get your boy friend-girl friend back after a break up, self reflection may be necessary. If you choose to find fault in your partner, know there is little hope for the future. Rest assured it won't work and it's you who is going to be the loser. True love is invaluable, something you do not want to throw away because of stubbornness.

However, by looking within yourself you may find that even you are to blame for some reason or another. This is what will make a rekindled relationship possible. With that, leaving the past behind and going for reconciliation may be the better option. If you regret the actions of the past and want to take the knife out of your heart , find a fool proof guide of getting him/her back and live a happy life.
The mere fact that you are reading this article speaks volumes toward your desire to get your better half back. This in itself is a terrific move! Regardless of what your reasoning may be for wanting to get back with your ex, there are some steps that you will want to take to win them back.
Last but not the least, it is vital for you to be honest with yourself and admit your fault(may be) without hesitation. No matter how big your ego may be, it is not worth allowing it to get in the way of rekindling a relationship. If you truly miss him or her, its time to put your guard down now. Resolve your misunderstandings and work toward finding peace and happiness again.

The past is not worth fighting over as it will get you nowhere. The easiest way to win in argument is to admit your mistakes and move on. No matter how hard it may be, the end result of winning back your ex will be far greater than the winning an argument. While these tips can help you get on the right track, it is up to you to put them into action.

While I am no psychiatrist by any means, the tips listed above have worked for a vast amount of couples looking to win back their ex. If you are looking for a solution to a problem, you must first identify the problem and the solutions will follow. How you apply the solutions will determine what happens in the future.

About the Author

Larry D. Amerson is freelance article writer, has written numerous articles on the subject of relationship and marriage.Many of his articles are published in ezzine.com

To all single ladies / The 10 rules of bringing a man home

2009-10-08T10:28:00.000-07:00

1. Warn your flatmate you've got company if you want to avoid scaring her into using her self-defence moves on him when he nips out for a midnight wee.

2. Make sure you've stocked up on condoms to avoid the 2am, half-dressed sprint of shame to the petrol station.

3. Do you really need to ask the awkward, "Would you like a coffee?" question on arrival? You're fooling no one.

4. Bar him from your room at any cost until you've hidden your teddy bears/thrush treatment/snaps of your ex/truly skanky knickers.

5. Forget coy lights-off sex and then hiding under the duvet. He cam home with you home, - which means he thinks you're gorgeous.

6. Men get intimidated too. Draping yourself on your bed, naked but for a Rampant Rabbit, is best saved for, oooh, the third date.

7. Don't offer to share your toothbrush (grim). He's a boy, so probably used to using his finger and a blob of Colgate.

8. Save your flannel Winnie-The-Pooh pyjamas for another time. Be sexy and sleep in his shirt. Or naked....

Kissing as soon as you wake up is all very well in films, but in real life you'll asphyxiate each other with morning breath.

10. Cooking a morning fry-up will earn you goddess status in his eyes - and give you time to work out if he deserves a repeat performance.

The Most Useful Communication Technique of All Time

2009-03-31T01:35:00.000-07:00

Communication isn't about how much you say but whether each person grasps the other's perspective. If your partner is a reluctant talker, you may be unwittingly fueling his reticence. When he states his case, do you launch a counterattack? Criticize his reasoning? Get upset? If so, he may keep quiet for a reason.
The Most Useful Communication Technique of All Time is deceptively simple, but it works like magic. Next time your partner makes a point, take a moment to digest whatever he is saying. Then say it back to him.
Maybe not word for word, but you have to get the gist—and you can't stop trying until your partner agrees you've nailed it. Switch roles and repeat.
Once you're not so busy explaining yourself to someone who just doesn't get it, you can look for compromise.
Before I started grad school and officially drank the psychotherapy Kool-Aid, I used to mock this technique as a way to wrap gauze around discord: "I'm hearing that you're a pathetic jerk." "Well, I'm hearing that you're a total loser. " But once I tried it, I realized that "I'm hearing…" isn't just psychobabble.
It telegraphs the message "I'm listening to you because what you have to tell me is important." And that's the single most important thing couples can say to each other.
By Darby Saxbe

Starting a Money Conversation with Your Spouse: A Script for Couples

Money often causes couples to fight, but it doesn't have to—even during tough times. Use this script to start a conversation with your partner.First, keep in mind the best time to have any emotion-packed conversation is when both of you are not tired or hungry. Pick as calm a time as possible.

Here is an example of how to get the conversation started...

I know we haven't talked about he money problems much, and I want to make sure you know how I love you very much, and I know this might be a hard time for both of us.

But I want us to remember that we meant it when we said "for better or for worse," and thank goodness we have our health.

I want to make sure we have our love and that no matter what we stay close and not allow this financial problem to come between us in any way.

I want us to be able to help each other, bounce ideas off of each other and be able to speak without blaming each other.

So I feel we haven't really been able to sit and talk about this, and I just wanted to get started by hearing what you think we need to do.

Perhaps we should put everything on paper and talk about some ideas that each of us can work on or find different people to talk to about ideas to help us through this.

How do you know if a guy is the real man for you? II

2009-02-20T03:01:00.000-08:00

In my last edition I ask a question, what does astrology say about you and your mate? Out of over 200 people that read the article, the few response I got, made me want to throw more light into the topic, But the reality is that, if you do not understand what astrology means by now, you are missing out something vital in your life.
Astrology is talking about your zodiac sign, as in; the calendar month your were born your birth day, each month in the calendar represent a particular zodiac sign. Starting from

· January 21 – February 18 (AQUARIUS)
· February 29 – March 20 (PISCES)
· March 21 – April 20 (ARIES)
· April 21 – May 21 (TAURUS)
· May 22 – June 21 (GEMINI)
· June 22 – July 23 (CANCER)
· July 24 – August 23 (LEO)
· August 24 – September 23 (VIRGO)
· September 24 – October 23 (LIBRA)
· October 24 – November 22 (SCORPIO)
· November 23 – December 21 (SAGITTARIUS)
· December – January 20 (CAPRICON)
Now I will not go into the detail story of how all these came about (if you want to know more about astrology, you can Google it out) but each zodiac category will tell you about your WORK FINANCE, FRIENDS and COMPANIONS including your PERSONALITY.

So when I ask that question, what does astrology say about you and your mate? I mean how compatible are you with someone from your past, present or future? Compatibility Report includes your LOVE RATING for romantic couples, singles and lovers, partners, dating, engaged or married. The rating is always between two people A and B Now astrology is to find out if they both have the ability to live together without problems, if the love between them matches each other.
Your Love Match (Compatibility) Report is the comparison of your basic birth chart, to the birth chart of the other person for compatibility in the areas of physical attraction, emotional connectedness, mental rapport, spiritual, psychological, telepathic, or past lives history. Are things fun? Or are they always serious between you? Do you bang heads and don’t seem to compromise in matters of money, raising of children, or can’t seem to feel each other’s needs?
You see we all are people with different attitude, characters and behavioral patens, Male and Female, Young and Old.
For us to live together in Pease and Harmony there must be a way of communication of thoughts and feelings from one person to another.
That is what ASTOLOGY is all about; Believe it or not it is real.
Love is like the sea, it’s a moving thing and it is different on every shore. I know you need somebody to make you happy, love you better and make you feel exactly the way you want. Let me know what you think about it, you can mail me personally on kayodefx@gmail.com

Is he or she the right person for you?

2009-01-17T03:52:00.000-08:00

How do you know if a guy is the real man for you?
What does astrology say about you and your mate (or potential mate)? Find out with the Love Match Compatibility Tester! Use it to learn more about any type of relationship -- friendships, family ties, possible love interests, and more! Just send me your sign and the sign of someone special to my mail box, and gain valuable insight into how compatible the two of you really are!

Is he or she the right one for you?
Are you soul mates?
Do you feel you have a strong spiritual tie?
Is there a strong physical attraction, and are there mutual emotional feelings?
Is dating going to be it or is there more to this relationship?

Using your astrological birth charts from the date, time, and place of your birth is basis for your Love Match Report.
The technique called synastry compares your birth chart (birth chart, includes your Sun, Moon, Rising sign, etc) with that of your special love interest of anyone from your past, current, or potential future. Your "love signs", planets, houses - which are areas of life that you influence each other - is described, as well as the strengths and weaknesses of your relationship.

Your Love Match Report is an excellent tool for those who want to know more about their relationship, need to make important decisions about whether or not they want to make a commitment for a long-term or even engage in a short romance with someone with whom you may feel an attraction for.
If you need to make a choice, who do you choose?
How do you know which one is right for you.
Get two Love Match Reports and compare more than two relationships, or even more than two, especially if you are actively dating for that special Love Match to come into your life. Chances are that you may have already met him or her.

Give yourself the best advantage and emotional investment into your love life and seek out someone who is best for you, according to what you are looking for in a relationship. Your Love Match Report describes this for you. mail me and find out more.

11 Things That Keep The Relationship Alive and Exciting.

2009-01-10T00:23:00.000-08:00

Keep Your Partner Loving You

Here are seven ways to keep your partner loving for ever you no matter how long you have been together. Fail to do these things and you might find yourself alone again.

Always show him or her you really love them and let them see it in your smile. Be happy and your partner cannot fail to be happy too.

Never be always predictable and get into a daily routine, do something silly every day just to make your partner laugh with you.

Be spontanious, buy your loved one unexpected gifts, not only when you need to be forgiven or on a special ocassion.

Take the time to listen and show interest in whatever your partner has to say, even if you are not very interested in his or her passion. Try to share eachothers likes and dislikes as much as possible.

Let him watch his favourite sports program, while you find time to do something else for the duration and show eachother appreaciation for making time for what you both enjoy.
Take her to have her beauty treatments and pay for it yourself and let her know how gorgeous she looks with words and deeds.

Book both of you on the best vacation you can afford and enjoy every second you are together, at home as well as away relaxing and so in love with eachother.

Find things you both enjoy doing together apart from making love, although this is also important to a lasting relationship when it is kept exciting and enjoyable.

Always reassure eachother that neither of you will ever cheat so that complete trust can be built into your relationship, and keep your word always. There is never an excuse to cheat, being drunk is a cop out for wanting to try another.

Keep your sex life exciting and never rush things. Try reading about Tantric Sex and use some of the methods within the book.

Run her bath and place scented candles in the bathroom for her. And she might cook you a special meal or your favourite dish

Makeover Madness

2009-01-09T23:57:00.000-08:00

Makeover madness, plastic surgery, and being happy with who you are.
I just saw something really sad.

I was flipping through channels, trying to see if there was anything on, and I landed on what I found out was MTV. The show was "I Want to Look Like Someone Famous", or something like that.

I've noticed that there has been an onslaught of such shows.
Everyday people going under the knife to look like someone else.

Not subtle little changes like hair coloring or whitening their smile, but drastic makeover changes like chin implants, nose jobs and complete body changes all in the course of a few weeks to look like someone else.

These are perfectly acceptable looking people wanting to look like someone famous.
They are so uncomfortable with who they are, with being in their own skin, that they are willing to put their lives and faces in danger for a makeover to "become" someone else.
I look at the stretch marks forming across my nine-month expectant-mother frame and think how with just a flick of a laser they could be gone.

I look at the wrinkles forming around my eyes and mouth and think how just a few injections of Botox could rid me of those nuisances.

But I realize what those marks are. Reminders of my life experiences!
I can point to which stretch marks are from Zach and which ones are from Selah, due to the different ways I've carried each. The wrinkles around my eyes and mouth are reminders of all the laughs and giggles I've had in my life.
I wouldn't change a one.

Look at your imperfections for what they are, YOURS. You are you, individual and beautiful.
I don't want to look like someone who is famous this year for their 15 minutes. Ten years from now, no one will know who they are, much less who you look like.

I don't want my children to think that their value is found in someone else's fame. They are loved for who they are. They are special for who they are. A makeover will not make them more special.

I heard it best put by the man himself, Fred Rogers. People are like fish. Everyone is fancy in their own way; some on the inside and some on the outside. You just need to figure out how you're fancy and know that no one can take that away from you, unless you let them.

10 Signs You Should Dump Him by New Year’s

2008-12-24T22:03:00.000-08:00

Having doubts about your dude?

Read on to find out if you should give him the boot before New Year's.

1. When you ask to speak to him about moving in, he schedules the talk for June.

2. Each time after sex, he grabs a private notebook from his bag and scribbles something in it, giggling.

3. His friends call him by the nickname of Cheaty McGee.

4. He loves to touch you and kiss you and will do so just as soon as he powers up and finishes killing these level-four zombies. Die, video zombies, die!

5. His ring tone is "Baby Got Back."

6. The guy's elaborate excuse for not spending the holidays together includes training for an Ironman competition.

7. Mr. Reality still entertains the idea that he could be a "stripper choreographer."

8. He’s already written a scathing tell-all memoir of your relationship — and you’ve only been dating for two months.

9. He calls your mom "Mrs. Robinson" and stares at her way too intensely.

10. The big spender usually splurges and buys you awesome gifts, so it’d be a real shame to dump him before Christmas.

5 Times You Shouldn't Text Him

2008-12-19T12:14:00.000-08:00

Firing off too many messages can kill a budding relationship

We tell you when to step away from the cell.

Casual electronic notes have become a huge part of dating, and experts speculate that texts have surpassed actual phone calls between many couples. So it's no wonder why you can find yourself with an itchy text-messaging trigger finger (or thumbs, rather) when in the throes of new love. But beware: There's such a thing as too much texting (what you might call TMT).

"Overdoing it can freak guys out," says relationship expert Arlene Krieger, PhD. "They feel pressured into sending an instantaneous response.

"There are several instances where texting can torpedo a relationship before it's barely gotten off the ground: After your first few dates.

It may be tempting to contact a guy after an amazing date, but resist the urge.

"Reaching out lessens the thrill of the chase for him," says psychologist Diana Kirschner, PhD, author of the upcoming book Love in 90 Days.

When you're drunk. Since phones don't come with Breathalyzers, it's up to you to stop yourself from sending a tipsy message — especially one that suggests you two meet up ASAP. "Being too available lets a guy know he has all the leverage," Krieger says.

When you're angry.

It's annoying when a guy flakes, but sending a "Why haven't you called me?!" inquiry makes you look massively insecure. Avoid angry texts once you're in a relationship too. "When it's in writing, you can't easily take it back," Kirschner says. It's even smart to ban bitchy humor, which can sound meaner than it is.When you're trying to be funny.

"When relayed nonverbally, sarcasm and joking can come off as aggressive," according to Kirschner. A dude could read a message like "OMG, you were out of control last night" literally, which makes you sound pissed when you were actually just fondly remembering his funny behavior.When you've already texted him that day.

Once you're in an ongoing relationship, you may be tempted to rely on texting as a regular form of communication, and there's nothing wrong with staying in touch that way sometimes. But electronic communication discourages phone conversations and one-on-one time. Also, guys like brief updates, not a blow-by-blow of your life.

What if His Parents Don't Like You?

2008-11-25T08:27:00.000-08:00

What if His Parents Don't Like You?
Love the guy, but his mom and dad are pretty much evil incarnate. Here are four easy steps for how to handle his frosty folks. Buzz up!
By Julie Suratt

So you’ve met Mr. Right, and everything is damn near perfect.

There’s just one problem: Mama and Papa Right. Put simply, they don’t like you — and they’re not exactly shy about it. “Not only is it unpleasant for you to have to spend time with these people, but you also may worry that their disapproval could influence your guy’s feelings for you,” says therapist Lee Schnebly, author of Being Happy Being Married. So how do you get along so it’s not so freakin’ awkward? We’ve come up with a plan to handle those pain-in-the...er, we mean, his parents.

Step 1: Get Where They’re Coming From
Come on, how could anyone not love you? Well, experts say the most likely explanation is fear. “There’s an innate protective instinct to shut out the ‘intruder’ who’s invading their family,” says Schnebly.

Also, jealousy could be the issue. “His mom may feel that she’s being replaced,” says Bree Allinson, PhD, author of How to Deal with Your Mother-in-Law. So reassure her that she’s still number one by asking her for advice on your guy (like how to cook his favorite meal).

Another explanation: In many cases, parents feel threatened if you come from a different background. “Your values and religion may conflict with their own,” says Allinson. “They might worry that you’ll influence their son.” Without sacrificing your beliefs, show that you’re open to learning about theirs, so it’s clear that the two can coexist.

Step 2: Don’t Try to Be Best Friends
You don’t have to be buddy-buddy with his folks; you just have to get along. In fact, if you’re too eager to please, it could come across as fake and ass-kissy. On the other hand, don’t act in awe of them. Avoid the urge to force a familial relationship; these people are still essentially strangers. “Think of them as equals, not superiors,” advises Schnebly. “You’ll feel more at ease and really be yourself.”

Step 3: Make It Clear You Care About Him
Parents’ main concern is their child’s well-being, so they need reassurance that you won’t break their poor boy’s heart. “They won’t want to connect with you if they think you’re not there to stay,” says Leonard Felder, PhD, author of Wake Up or Break Up. Some suggestions: Hold his hand, kiss his cheek, or share a story about how he made you laugh. Once they know your feelings are authentic, they’ll begin to trust you.

Step 4: Last Resort
If after all that, his parents are still being evil, stand up for yourself. “If you refuse to be pushed around, they’ll show you the respect that you deserve,” says therapist Susan Forward, PhD, author of Toxic In-Laws. The next time they’re rude, Forward suggests saying, “Look, I don’t ask that you love me, but I’d like it if we could at least be civil.” Lay down the law now, because if you decide to marry this guy, the problems are only going to escalate.

Bonus: How to Wow His 'Rents
These three phrases will help you dazzle his mom and dad...

"I've heard such great things about you!" This surefire line not only butters up his parents but makes your sweetie look good too.

"What was he like as a kid?" Get them chatting about their all-time favorite subject — their son — and they'll be too distracted to notice you nervously biting your nails.

"It was so nice of you to invite me to your home/to dinner." Saying thank you shows that you're a girl with manners and lets them know how honored you are to be included.

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Should You Move in With Your Guy?

2008-10-13T06:53:00.000-07:00

If you and your man are thinking of living together, read this first.

By Molly Triffin

Eyebrows raised when Justin Timberlake and Jessica Biel were recently spotted apartment-hunting in Manhattan. After all, shacking up is a serious—and sometimes controversial—step. “Living together can be a powerful way to strengthen and deepen your relationship,” says Marshall Miller, author of Unmarried to Each Other: The Essential Guide to Living Together as an Unmarried Couple. “But if you make that leap before you’re both ready, it can harm your bond.”

Contemplating sharing an address with your man? Take a look at the checklist below—if you agree with five or more of the following statements, call the movers.

We typically spend five or more nights together each week. The more often you hang out, the better sense you’ll have of what it will be like to share a pad. Plus, you’ll go in with realistic expectations. If you know ahead of time that he leaves his dirty clothes all over the apartment and has an aversion to emptying the dishwasher, you won’t be as up in arms about these things when you live together. Miller also suggests gaging how you feel about spending nights apart. “If you look forward to sleeping alone and having your own space, that might indicate you’re not ready to move in with him.”

We’ve been dating for a minimum of six months. We tend to put our partners on a pedestal in the beginning of a relationship and are blind to their imperfections. For that reason, it’s important to wait until that honeymoon period ends before moving in. “After six months, you know your partner well, have a clear picture of the relationship, and know what you’re getting into, warts and all,” says Miller.

We’ve gone on a week-long vacation together and had a great time. When living together, you’ll have to make tricky joint decisions, like how to divide chores and expenses. A trip tests these same skills on a smaller scale. If you can agree to pay for the plane tickets while he foots the hotel bill, chances are you’ll be able to successfully navigate larger issues. Even more important: spending 24/7 together forces you to examine how much you enjoy each other’s company.

I have a drawer of clothes at his place and toiletries in his medicine cabinet and visa versa. You’ve already begun easing into cohabitation by merging your belongings, which is a sign that you’re ready to take it a step further, according to Miller. It also shows that you’re comfortable and enthusiastic about sharing your space.

We’ve had a conversation about the future and expressed that we want to be together long-term. It’s key that you’re in sync about life plans—i.e., you both want to move to Chicago or have kids in the next five years. “And make sure you’re on the same page about why you’re moving in together,” warns Miller. If one of you sees it as a precursor to getting engaged, and the other is doing it because it’s practical, don’t bother unpacking your boxes.

When we disagree, we can work through it and reach a solution that feels fair and reasonable for both of us. Living together is all about compromise, so if you’re able to address problems and resolve them, it’s a good indicator that you’ll be able to smooth over any bumps in the road while sharing a space. We want to be with each other as much as possible. Sure, splitting the rent and utilities is helpful, but it shouldn’t be your prime motivation.

4 Ways to Help Her Chill

2008-10-02T23:54:00.000-07:00

When your girl is stressed, bummed out, and
generally having a crappy day, you can mellow her
mood — and win major brownie points in the
process — by cribbing these tips.

Start the WaterworksRunning your girl a soothing bath or a hot shower is not only a brilliant way to get her naked, but it also will make you look like a hero.

"When you go out of your way to create a calming space for her, it shows that you care about making her happy and helping her feel good," says stress expert Kathleen Hall, author of A Life in Balance. She suggests going the extra mile by leaving a book or magazine (Cosmo, natch) by the tub and drizzling relaxing lavender oil in the water (you can find it at most drugstores).

Pour Her Fave Libation

If you know your girl has had a rough day, meet her at the door with a frosty lemonade or chocolate milk, or crack open her favorite bottle of wine so it's ready for her as soon as she gets home. "Many people have mental associations with tastes and flavors, so when you take a sip or a bite of a particular treat, it immediately brings you back to that comforting place," explains Hall. Meaning: Your private happy-hour surprise is bound to have a soothing effect on her emotional state.

Give Her a Rubdown

There's a reason why people shell out major cash for massages: because they feel so damn good. But why should she have to pay for a pro when she has your strong hands at her disposal? "A simple back scratch or five-minute shoulder rub will release a lot of tension very quickly," says psychologist Martha Davis, PhD, of Santa Clara, California. Not a professional masseur? No problem. "To relax her instantly, ask where her stress points and knots are — whether they're in her back, her feet, or her neck — and offer to rub them out slooowly," Davis adds.

Take Her Away

It's hard for her to tune out her daily stresses when her (and your) cell is ringing like crazy and there's a pile of dirty dishes in the sink. So if you really want to help her unwind, take her out of the usual routine. "All you need to do is create a little sanctuary in the bedroom," suggests Davis. "Escaping from the grind will help her forget — at least for a little while — everything she has on her plate at the moment." Turn off both of your mobiles, light some candles, and bring her dinner in bed so it really feels like a treat. Postmeal, she'll be in prime position to engage in the ultimate stress-buster.

THE NICEST GIFT EVER

2008-09-10T07:44:00.000-07:00

THE NICEST GIFT EVER

The other day a friend was about to chuck out some wilted roses. We'd just been having a heart to heart about his fiancé and he'd confided in me that when she's upset or aggravated it helps to 'put her in water'. Smiling at his wit and wisdom, I grabbed the roses.

'Mmm, wait. Water isn't just good for bad moods,' I replied. 'Run her a bath with her favourite oils, and sprinkle the petals all over the water. Just because.'
He did. He even made a trail of petals leading to the bathroom. I can tell you it got them in the mood! But then again, you never can tell…

I once met a hot, Californian, lover in the sultry city of Istanbul and was surprised to find myself drowned in gifts. It was a gift enough to see his face, his arms and his smile again after five months apart. He gave me clothes, trinkets from San Francisco and even Jelly Bellies (which are hot property on the sweet tooth market, mind you. Especially on the edge of the Middle East, where oil is gold and water is diamonds!). Feeling like I'd just gotten the cream and the cat, I looked at him in wonder and wondered what next. Then he dropped the bomb. He'd had more lovers in our few months apart than I'd had in my whole life and he hadn't bothered to tell me, as we'd agreed. He'd also decided that as much as he wanted a fairytale adventure with me in the land of blue turbans and bright skies, he didn't want a relationship beyond that – even though he said he was 'deeply in love' with me.

His guilt – not his love and adoration – had prompted him to spoil me and that really spoilt it for me. But being a slow learner in the Art of Love and a bit of a sucker for the promise of love (even when it's just been broken), I gave in to the illusion. But after Turkey, and a lot of heartbreak, I gave away all his lovely little gifts. To bergies (and friends who'd warned me about him).
The lesson? The real gift is in the intention. Find out why he's doing what he's doing before you gush your 'Thank Yous'. And if you really mean it, spoil him right back with something sublime.

Please leave a comment if you enjoy this entry.

The 13 Best Relationship Tips Ever

2008-08-10T16:27:00.001-07:00

Beginning a relationship is generally the easy part; it's maintaining the connection that gets a little tricky. That's why a growing number of twosomes (whether or not they've tied the knot) are going into couples therapy as a preemptive strike against the tough times that will inevitably hit...and to learn how to keep the good times flowing. To give you a leg up in your love life, we asked the country's top relationship experts to share the most crucial things they've uncovered over the years — from big-picture philosophies to little gestures that go a long way. These practices will help keep your union in a happy, healthy place.

1. Act Out of Character Couples develop a particular dynamic: the way they relate to each other that repeats itself over and over. If you break that pattern and act against type — in a positive way — you inject new life into the relationship. For example, if you always get angry at your guy when he doesn't follow through on some chore, try addressing him in a nicer, more friendly tone, then thank him when he does a good job. It works every time.—Toni Coleman, psychotherapist and relationship coach in McLean, Virginia.

2. Get in Touch a Lot No doubt you hug and kiss each other hello and maybe snuggle a little after having sex. But simple acts like stroking his arm while you're watching TV, taking his hand when you're walking down the street, or fondling his thigh during dinner are also ways to bond. Touching your partner throughout the day triggers your feel-good hormones, which reinforces your affection and makes you feel closer on an instinctive level.—Psychotherapist Barton Goldsmith, PhD, author of Emotional Fitness for Couples.

3. Don't Be BFFsBeing pals with your man is great in theory. But that kind of connection actually can kill your sex life. You could wind up having a roommatelike bond with each other rather than a hot one if you let yourself lose track of the masculine-feminine tension that excited you at the beginning of your relationship. Save the gab sessions for when you hang out with your girlfriends and your sexy energy for connecting with your guy.—Lana Holstein, MD, director of sexuality and vitality programs for couples at Miraval Resort in Catalina, Arizona.

4. Enjoy a Steady Diet of Sex If you want to maintain closeness with your man, get out of your head and into bed. Guys feel more comfortable connecting with women on a physical level, not engaging in deep discussions. To strengthen your bond, approach your lust life as you would your gym regimen or your diet — make it part of your routine. Set a goal to have sex at least a couple times a week.—Toni Coleman.

5. Take Turns Talking To make sure you both get a chance to state what's on your mind during a disagreement — and get your points across — alternate playing reflective therapist, where one listens while the other talks.—Psychologist Diana Kirschner, PhD, author of Opening Love's Door.

6. Find the IntersectionWhen making decisions together, try to find common ground. You each should write down exactly what you want. Let's say you're angling for a vacay in San Francisco to see the sights and hit up the cool shops and restaurants, while he wants a tropical getaway where he can veg out by the pool and sip drinks with umbrellas in the glass. Now that your desires are clearly laid out on paper, you can pick a place that will satisfy both your needs. A cool city, a little sun...how about Miami? —Paul Dobransky, MD, author of The Secret Psychology of How We Fall in Love.

7. Be More Positive Than NegativeThere's a more effective way to air grievances than to file an angry complaint. Sandwich your negative comment between two positives. If you want to complain about how he's always late, for example, try something like "You know, I love that you're so laid-back and easygoing, but it really bothers me when you show up so late. I'm sure you can still be the fun guy I adore and also be on time." —Los Angeles psychologist Yvonne Thomas, PhD.

8. Echo Each Other When you and your man are having a serious relationship talk, it's easy to get so caught up in how you want to respond that you're not really listening to what's being said. That's why it's important for both of you to repeat each other: so you know you've been heard and you feel understood.—Yvonne Thomas.

9. Grow Your Tolerance Neither of you is perfect, and the quirks you both have are here to stay. So rather than let those annoying traits work your last nerve, try to get in touch with the upside of those particular flaws, even if it's not immediately recognizable. Instead of getting annoyed when he starts screaming at the TV, for example, remind yourself how much you love his passion. Or if his shyness with new people bugs you, think about how refreshing it is to be with a chill, genuine guy rather than a blowhard who needs to chat with everyone in the room.—Denver psychologist Jennifer Oikle, PhD, dating coach for Coupling Connection.

10. Take a Time-OutIt's important that you get a break from the daily grind and spend alone time as a couple — cell phones and the Internet are off-limits. It can be a fun day trip or just a few quiet hours to yourselves. The point is simply to steal away (even if you're going nowhere) so you can reconnect, free of any distractions. —Diana Kirschner.

11. Have His Back You might not agree with your guy when he's had a riff with a friend or he thinks his boss is being unfair, but you should always be on his side...and vice versa. Otherwise, you'll both feel like you can't count on each other. That doesn't mean you have to take the "you're so right" route all the time. Just hear him out, and let him know that you'll support him no matter what.—New York City psychotherapist JoAnn Magdoff, PhD.

12. Spend a Little Money on Each OtherYou don't have to wait for a special occasion to give small presents to show your love. In fact, gifts are more fun-and meaningful — when they're not expected. Try to get into the habit of exchanging sweet tokens of appreciation for no particular reason. Don't go and blow your paycheck though. It's not about being extravagant; it's just a way of showing that you really get — and think about — each other. Maybe you buy him a tee of his favorite band that you saw on sale or he gets you a pair of pajamas in your favorite color. —Barton Goldsmith.

13. Be a Good DateFace it, no one can stay fascinating forever. After being together for a while, the initial excitement fades, and your guy can start to get kind of boring sometimes. Hey, don't think you're off the hook — if you're feeling a little ho-hum about him, the feeling is likely mutual! To combat the blahs, take turns coming up with an interesting date idea every month. Keep the time and details to yourself, and try to think outside the box — dinner and a movie is not exactly innovative. An awesome concert or a snowboarding lesson, for example, is a much less predictable treat. —Jennifer Oikle.

How to Get a Man's Interest and Attention

2008-07-07T08:53:00.000-07:00

You have an interest on this charming lovable guy and you want to know how to get him interested to you. Are you wondering what men are thinking? You want to get noticed by him and of course you want him to open up to you. Men are usually not vocal with their feelings and there are things you can do for him to open up to you to develop a good relationship with him eventually. Here are some tips to get a man's interest and attention:
Show that you are interested in his thoughts. To get a man's interest you must show concerns and let him know what he says matters to you. Interest reciprocates interest, if you show that you care about the things that matters to him, he will open up to you and things will be easier for you to know what he thinks.

Men are visual and of course physical appearance counts. You do not have to be like a super beauty and sexy type of girl to get a man's interest, but you should know how to dress like a true lady, know how to enhance your looks and know how to handle yourself. To get a man's interest and attention, wear clothes that define your best physical assets, if you have long slender beautiful legs they flaunt it. There are clothes that make you look gorgeous and beautiful. Color matters and you will be surprised how it can create magic in getting his attention. Think a lot about red, it is sensuous or intense and attracts attention especially to men.

To get a man's interest and attention, you must know what type of guy he is. Is he the serious type guy, a fashionable guy, a romantic guy, etc.? It is important to know what type of guy he is for you to know where to start. If he is a fashionable type of guy, then he makes fashion as a statement, so you can start from there. You will not get his attention if you cannot be fashionable or trendy. But remember, if you cannot afford to be expensively fashionable, there are ways to be trendy without spending too much. Read magazines and advice on how to dress and be fashionable on a budget.

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How to Get a Man's Interest and Attention

2008-07-07T08:33:00.001-07:00

You have an interest on this charming lovable guy and you want to know how to get him interested to you. Are you wondering what men are thinking? You want to get noticed by him and of course you want him to open up to you. Men are usually not vocal with their feelings and there are things you can do for him to open up to you to develop a good relationship with him eventually. Here are some tips to get a man's interest and attention:

Show that you are interested in his thoughts. To get a man's interest you must show concerns and let him know what he says matters to you. Interest reciprocates interest, if you show that you care about the things that matters to him, he will open up to you and things will be easier for you to know what he thinks.

Men are visual and of course physical appearance counts. You do not have to be like a super beauty and sexy type of girl to get a man's interest, but you should know how to dress like a true lady, know how to enhance your looks and know how to handle yourself. To get a man's interest and attention, wear clothes that define your best physical assets, if you have long slender beautiful legs they flaunt it. There are clothes that make you look gorgeous and beautiful. Color matters and you will be surprised how it can create magic in getting his attention. Think a lot about red, it is sensuous or intense and attracts attention especially to men.

To get a man's interest and attention, you must know what type of guy he is. Is he the serious type guy, a fashionable guy, a romantic guy, etc.? It is important to know what type of guy he is for you to know where to start. If he is a fashionable type of guy, then he makes fashion as a statement, so you can start from there. You will not get his attention if you cannot be fashionable or trendy. But remember, if you cannot afford to be expensively fashionable, there are ways to be trendy without spending too much. Read magazines and advice on how to dress and be fashionable on a budget.

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How to get your Ex Back - "Avoiding Common Mistakes"

2008-07-07T08:18:00.000-07:00

Do you still love him(her) and wondering how to get your ex back? Maybe you are questioning whether it is possible to get your ex back? Perhaps you are already on the patch of giving up already. Things can be even worse if your friends and family members are not very supportive of you trying to get your ex back. They may ask you to let go of the relationship,find someone better and that there is million other opportunities?

Well,the truth is that it does not have to be that problematic. You don't have to give up so soon, especially if you still have feelings for your ex and wants to get back together. Although, it is unrealistic to expect your ex to get back to you overnight, it can be done overtime, if you approach it correctly. You don't want to be too impatient over it.

Before planning what your next step is, perhaps you will want to briefly look at what you have done so far. Have you done anything that shouldn't be done? If you have, do not worry too much about it as there are steps you can take to reverse the situation. Most importantly, do not blame yourself.

Most people will probably make these common mistakes because of two main reasons. First, they are not really aware of it. Second, even if they know it is a mistake, they may still do it because it is hard not to make these mistakes when you are emotionally devastated. It is very easy to lose all control of yourself during such an emotionally trying time.

So, what are those mistakes? If you broke up just recently then its absolutely the worse timing to come up with any decision. You have just broken up and it is quite natural that you are not emotionally able to make any effective decisions. Chances are you will feel like there is no future in the world. Your mind may absorb thoughts that life without him/her is pointless. If you have this sort of thoughts, you will apparently want to get back with your ex but that may not be the honorable decision. Some of those mistakes including continuous calling your ex again and again or texting back and forth. Another big mistake is what is fairly called "drunk dialing". This situation my look like this: You have just broken up and you decided to get yourself drunk so that you can ease and get over with your emotional disappointment. Unfortunately, before you know it, you started to call your ex or texting messages to your ex while you are drunk. Possibility is that you are going to say something that you probably would not say when you are sober. This situation can be very embarrassing once you are sober and realizing the things that you have done.

Of course, what is being pointed out above is not so far an exhaustive list. There are many,many more mistakes that you will want to avoid at all cost. By avoiding all these things, you will increase your chances of getting you ex back and enjoy "The Magic Of Making Up ". The magic of making up- is the best resource of advices to help you along the way how to get your ex back!

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